The Kogi state actress who has been under pressure to get married due to her age recently granted an interview to Encomium where she talked about her love life and the issues of marriage.
About her stand on wanting to get married, she said:
“Marriage has been overrated. It’s unnecessarily overrated. It’s just much of headache with how things are now. Even ordinary relationship is a huge burden and heart breaking let alone marriage. When you can’t stand each other as boyfriend and girlfriend, how would you live under the same roof when you get marriage.
People need to know themselves spiritually before getting married. People only know themselves physically not spiritually, so they and up getting bored with each other. They stand in that marriage and later it may be very irritating and they start fighting. Before they know it, everything becomes violent.”
About people pressuring her about marriage, she said:
“Its very irritating. When you are not my father nor my mother and you are more concerned then them. So people should face their problems because they also have a lot of problems in their lives. So you if you push me to get married, i might end up probably not loving the man the way i am meant to love him.
Marriages this days is like a glass that needs to be treated with care and attention. It’s a school you need to study very well.”
About the man in her life, the 39 years old actress had this to say:
“At this time of my life, am no longer interested in talking anything. If there is or there’s none, that’s my problem. It’s nobody’s business. I have done that in the past, i have invested a lot emotionally, talking about my relationship.
So i am no longer interested in talking about my relationship. I am tired of talking, let’s rest that case. Even on my wedding day, if i decide to get married eventually, nobody is invited.”
Halima took to her Instagram last month and stated she will never get married. She said that probably because of the high rate of broken marriages. What words of advice do you have for Halima about marriage?
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